Aggression in children and ways of treatment

One of the most important reasons for aggression in children is learning. That is, children who have had aggressive behavior patterns behave like their patterns. If a parent has an angry and aggressive temperament, their child will certainly become aggressive as well. This behavior is learned by the child. Since children identify with their parents, many of their parents' behaviors are unconsciously learned by their children. The explanation is that the replication process takes place completely unconsciously.Another point is that it is not necessary for the parents to have been aggressive with the child; If he witnesses the violent behavior of his parents with other people, he will learn this kind of behavior. Therefore, children learn their parents' behaviors through observation.It can be emphasized that children learn with their eyes; That is, what they observe, they learn; Even if that behavior is not directly related to them.Sometimes children are placed in duality and internal contradictions. Or rather, sometimes they get stuck on two roads and don't know which way to choose; And this situation makes them conflict, anxious and angry. For example, a child who likes to stay at home with his mother and on the other hand, when he sees that all the children go to school, he also wants to go to school at the same time, experiences a duality. Let's help our children not to be stuck in two ways of life for a long time. They should do the right thing quickly and accurately.

کلیدواژه ها:

learning ، aggression ، parents ، child